It's his birthday on Saturday? What can I do to spice things up?

If you want to give him something that is just as good as head, but are nervous about head in and of itself.. They have ******** Simulators. Some men have said just having a girl use that on them feels better than a mouth. Depends on how you are feeling. Not that it is necessarily a great Birthday present, but it's definitely something worth trying at some point.